Taxes and Divorces

When you get divorced, your entire world changes all around you. Of course, the emotional turmoil you are going through and moving back into a life you have not known for years are only some of the changes that you are going to have to make. Another inevitable change is going to be in your tax status. How you file, what you can deduct, and some other issues are going to get a little bit more complicated than they were when you were a “happy” couple filing together. Just remember that your tax status does not change instantaneously when you get divorced- those changes are a little bit slower to come about.

One of the biggest misconceptions about your taxes is that when you get divorced, you have to file as single that year. The most effective way to file is to do so as married and filing separately. This way, you can deduct your own things, claim your own credits, and not have to worry about further mixing up your financial life with your ex partner’s. With all of the emotions that typically run through people during the divorce process, you probably want nothing less than to be further associated with them. You can even use a free tax calculator to help you figure out where you’ll come out.

Did you know that when you pay for something, you can deduct it? For instance, if you are paying for your child’s college tuition, you can claim the American Opportunity higher education credit up to $2,500. And if you are paying your former spouse alimony in cash, as lined up in the terms of the divorce, you can also deduct that amount. As far as claiming your child as a dependent, you can only do so if the child lived with you for more of the tax year in question than they did with your ex spouse.

Your First Week With Your Newborn

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During the first week at home with your newborn baby there will be a lot of changes going on both with you and your baby. You will be exhausted from the physical toll labor and delivery has had on your body as well as the exhaustion caused from the healing process your body is going through. In addition to the physical exhaustion you will be facing you will also most likely be faced with very little sleep as you and your baby adjust to this new life you are venturing into.

During this first week at home with your baby you can expect to spend a lot of time feeding your baby and changing diapers. Newborn babies do not eat a lot at a time so may need to eat more often throughout the day. If you are breastfeeding you will find that you are most likely doing very little other than feeding your baby for the first few weeks.

Newborns are learning to adjust to their new environment in many ways. If your baby is having issues with jaundice he/she may be sleeping more as jaundice causes drowsiness. Some babies, however, will not sleep much at first as they adjust to life in the real world. It is vitally important for you to sleep when your baby is sleeping. You may feel that you need to accomplish things around the house, run errands, or even just watch your baby sleep. Do not give into these temptations! Your body is trying to recover from a very physically trying experience and it needs the time to do that.

There will be so many new experiences for you and your baby during this time. Take the time to enjoy your new baby but pamper yourself as well. Spend your first week at home recuperating from labor and delivery, relax as much as possible, sleep whenever you can, and enjoy every minute with your new baby.